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Skeletons in the Closet
Who doesn't have them? When meeting new people, we talk about our strengths, demonstrate our best qualities, talk about significant events, "omitting" everything that may not be liked or will be condemned.⠀
You won't talk about the fact that your father or brother is "sitting" for murder, about the fact that you cheated on your husband, about aborted children, about unrequited love, about incest in your family. It's not accepted! It's impossible! And why air "dirty linen in public"?! It seems that the less we talk about it, the faster it will be wiped off the face of the earth!
This is how it is with you, this was before you were born. But the Universe is designed in such a way that everything that is vented is repeated! Concealing, hushing up their feelings, our ancestors packed them in a "gift box" and passed them on to their descendants by inheritance. What the ancestors hide, the children will reveal.
The most painful, problematic events that were turned into a secret continue to influence our lives today. These unconscious attitudes, "skeletons in the closet", act destructively, reflected in failures in personal life, chronic diseases, financial losses.
Often, we do not even think about how the programs of the Family guide us: one leads to material success and fame, another to family happiness, a third to loneliness.
But how to change the course of events? How to stop carrying in yourself feelings that are not yours, attracting destructive events to them, stepping on the same rake again and again.
It is necessary to establish the flow of love in your family system! Forgiving your parents is the most important part on this path.
Your parents are guides to the Power of your ancestors.
It is useless to expect your mom or dad to give you the attention and love that you did not receive in childhood. By cutting off the connection with your ancestors, you de-energize yourself and therefore it becomes more difficult to reach the heights to which you could rise.
It depends only on you how strong the connection between generations will be and what you will pass on to your descendants.
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